14 May
14 May
Most people say travelling together can make or break a relationship, and they say it for a good reason. When you have to spend 24 hours with the same person all day, you see each other’s best and worst sides. You realize how the other person is under stress, pressure and excitement. For some it can be a revelation and for some people it can be a pleasant experience. But, whatever the consequences are, travelling together is the best thing a couple can do together.
Find out each other’s travelling preferences. Is he an outdoorsy person? Does she enjoy the wilderness? It is important to know how much discomfort the other person is willing to go through when choosing a place. This can even help you overcome your fears and sometimes the other person’s encouragement is all you need. Make a checklist of the can’s and can not’s and then decide one middle ground as a safe destination to start off your travel journey with.
When travelling together, pack your essentials. Know what are the kinds of clothes and shoes you will require and make sure you each have things that not only are of your personal use but of a mutual use too.
While you are travelling you will face different kind of personal challenges. You both have to realize that this is new to the both of you and that one person cannot bear the burden of the entire trip alone. Whenever you both feel that you are going to get into an argument, take a time out and cool down before reanalyzing the situation. You will find out about each other’s weaknesses, strengths and fears and it is your job to embrace it.
The best part travelling as a couple is that you both have ample of pictures together. You will do a lot of memorable activities together and it will be an amazing opportunity for you take pictures. Carry a simple camera that will do the trick if you are not camera enthusiasts. A photo book will make for a great story at the next dinner party you host, or when you are thinking of placing new picture frames on the mantle.
Make sure you both discuss your entire day before you sleep, so you both know how you felt about it. If there is something your partner enjoyed more than you then revel in their moment. Also make notes of all the things that made your partner uncomfortable and watch out for them the next day. Plan your next day’s itinerary together and search on ideas together. You will be surprised to find out about what each of you like and dislike this way.
Travelling together is suppose to be fun and exciting and if you feel it is stressing you out more than it is helping your relationship, you should back out of it. Know when to stop, or else it can be trouble for the both of you.
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